The following is from our first podcast, which you can find on Spotify and iTunes, or visit this page: The Prickly Pair Podcast Episodes
Introduction: Embarking on a six-part series, we delve into the transformative world of couples check-in questions. These questions act as catalysts for growth, creating a space for couples to connect and understand each other better. Today, we kick off the series by exploring a fundamental question: How are we growing as a couple?
The Foundation: Rooted in the principle of love inspired by Christ, these check-ins empower couples to evolve guided by the Holy Spirit. The focus is on listening, truly hearing, and unraveling the insights the Holy Spirit offers to foster growth in intimacy, communication, faith, and other vital aspects of a relationship.
Questioning Growth: This week’s spotlight is on assessing the couple’s collective growth. Whether it’s in intimacy, communication, faith, or another area, the question sparks reflection on the journey. Are we progressing? What does growth mean for us? Sharing personal examples adds depth to these contemplations.
Insights from the Hosts: We share our experiences, emphasizing the impact of consistent prayer on intimacy. We acknowledge the challenges, admitting that amidst life’s busyness, they sometimes drift apart. Practical tips on prayer and the importance of regular date nights are also shared.
Daily Love Inquiry: We propose a daily question: “Have I loved you well today?” This simple yet profound query encourages couples to listen, learn, and improve without judgment or justification. It underscores the idea that marriage is a continuous journey of sacrifices bound by the love of Christ.
Conclusion: As we wrap up this installment, it’s clear that intentional reflection within a relationship is key. Couples check-in questions offer a platform for honest conversations, nurturing continuous growth, and fostering a love that reflects the selfless love of Christ. Stay tuned for more insights in the upcoming series, where we’ll explore various facets of thriving relationships.
